Lars and the Real Girl

Ryan Gosling stars in a quirky yet touching story about Lars, a man who isolates himself from everyone.  He fears human touch and panics when anyone tries to draw close - even those he loves most.  His brother and nurturing sister-in-law live fifty feet away yet feel like strangers.  But one day, to the shock of his family, Lars introduces his girlfriend: a life-sized doll.  He ordered her online, apparently unaware of the perverse reason such dolls are made.  He instead treats her with affection and the kind of respect a lady deserves: a woman who may become his bride.  Those closest to Lars fear he has lost his mind.  But they go along with his delusion, hoping "the real girl" might just play a redemptive role in Lars's life.  (Heads up:  you might want to fast-forward through one or two brief scenes involving a male co-worker who talks about pornography and views women as sexual objects.)

Cinderella Man

This 2005 films is based on the true story of James Braddock, a heavyweight boxer who lived in New York during the great depression.  After an early rise to the top of the boxing world, Braddock hits on hard times – including an injured hand that prevents him from fighting, taking away his only real source of income.  A devoted family man, Braddock and his wife enter the greatest fight of their lives – trying to keep the family together against tremendous odds.  (Heads Up:  James’ manager (Joe) frequently uses offensive language, including pervasive use of the Lord’s name in vain.  Also, much of the boxing violence is very realistic and intense.) 

Les Miserables

The 1998 film version of Les Miserables stars Liam Neeson as Jean Valjean and Geoffrey Rush as the unforgiving Inspector Javert.   Valjean is a former convict who has been rescued to God’s grace by a benevolent priest.   The priest challenges Valjean to become a new man and provides the means to start again.  Despite his best efforts, however, the relentless pursuit of an unforgiving law keeps a Valjean on the run and disrupts his efforts to care for other victims of a society dominated by cruelty and injustice.    

Marriage Date Movie

Use this chat guide for a date-night with your spouse.  Select a favorite romantic film to buy or rent.  (For best results, let her choose!)  Get the kids to bed and then slip into something "comfortable" before watching the movie in the privacy of your bedroom.  Then take turns answering the following questions.  Before going to sleep give one another a very long kiss goodnight!